HER MOTHER ORDERED HER NOT GOING OUT WITH HIM THE NIGHT BEFORE....

Câu 27: Her mother ordered her not going out with him the night before.

A B C D

Read the following passage and mark the letter A, B, c, or D on your answer sheet

to indicate the correct answer.

Parents complain that it is difficult to live with teenagers. Then again, teenagers say

exactly the same thing about their parents! According to a recent survey, the most common

arguments between parents and teenagers are those regarding untidiness and household

chores. On the one hand, parents go mad over untidy rooms, clothes dropped on the floor

and their children’s refusal to help with the housework. On the other hand, teenagers lose

their patience continually when parents tell them off for dropping the towel in the bathroom,

not cleaning up their room or refusing to do the shopping at the supermarket.

The survey, conducted by St George University, showed that different parents have

different approaches to these problems. However, some approaches are much more

successful than others. For example, those parents who yell at their teens for their

untidiness, but later clear up after them, have fewer chances of changing their teens’

behaviour. On the contrary, those who let teenagers experience the consequences of their

actions are more successful. For instance, when teenagers who don’t help their parents with

the shopping don’t find their favourite food in the fridge, they are forced to reconsider their

actions.

Psychologists say that the most important thing in parent-teen relationships is

communication. Parents should talk to their teens, but at the same time they should listen to

what their children have to say. Parents should tell their teens off when they are untidy, but

they should also understand that their room is their own private space. Communication is a

two-way process. It is only by listening to and understanding each other that problems

between parents and teens can be solved.